1. Reaching Out
Interventions are a powerful way to address many addictions and disorders—from the abuse of prescription medication, alcohol, food, gambling to sex addiction and mental health issues such as mood, thought and process disorders. The primary goal of intervention is to help a loved one who is at risk or in danger due to their ongoing behavior and untreated illness receive the highest quality help of a qualified professional or treatment program. Jeffrey’s cases may involve legal issues but this is not necessary. Often an intervention is necessary to avoid legal crisis. As a former impaired professional now in longterm personal recovery, Jeffrey is often a good match for the aspiring professional or the struggling professional whose career is in jeopardy.
Every intervention journey begins with a person reaching out with love and concern for someone they love. A phone consultation with Jeffrey is strictly confidential and provided at no charge. He will assess your situation and recommend an appropriate course of action, which may include a referral to another appropriate helping professional if it is not a case he can with confidence handle.
When you place your first call, you may be experiencing a lot of difficult and unsettling emotions – fear, anger, frustration, embarrassment, or helplessness. However, the very fact that you have begun to search for professional support and information from an experienced interventionist shows that you are motivated and that you are not helpless. You are taking critical and life-saving action. Jeffrey will help you move from crisis to solution.
2. Plan of Action / Logisitics
Selection and preparation of the team members who will participate in the actual intervention meeting with your loved one is a critical component of intervention planning. Jeffrey will work with your schedules and together you will develop a plan of action, calendaring mutually convenient meeting dates and action items well in advance to ensure that all participating family, friends and colleagues can participate. Travel arrangements and meeting rooms need to be in place. Jeffrey makes sure that every detail is properly arranged and that every participant is coached and trained to communicate to the loved one in more effective ways.
Individual and group phone or video calls help bring the intervention team together and help everyone align in better health and wellness for the loved one. Intervention goals are identified and contingency plans must be made. Preparation materials and concrete examples of good intervention sharing are also provided well in advance of the intervention meeting. The team learns how to engage the loved one in a heart-centered conversation that is at every level more invitational than confrontational.
3. Assessment / Preparation
Jeffrey will take from the intervention team a complete background and history concerning their loved one. Assessment needs to take into account the problems being observed presently and over time, prior diagnosis and treatment history, the family history of mental health and substance use, any potential traumatic events and so forth. The vocational, educational and relationship history is also part of the assessment. This helps develop an intervention strategy and is necessary to make appropriate recommendations for further action and treatment.
Collateral issues are often presented and need to be addressed as well as the primary issues as part of the intervention planning and overall strategy. Examples of such issues are: the loved one’s medical conditions, employment situation, work commitments, criminal charges, probationary restrictions, professional licensing issues, marital/custody issues and academic concerns. Beyond this there may be co-addicted partners and friends to consider. Good intervention strategy must take these factors into account as every potential obstacle needs to be anticipated and resolved. Otherwise, the loved one may have real or imagined obstacles that may delay or derail an intervention meeting. Having solid contingency plans in place often proves essential to intervention success.
Jeffrey makes his best recommendations of mental and behavioral health treatment programs that appear to be a good match based on the assessment, the desired location and the resources the family has for treatment. Insurance often needs to be considered as does the limited availability of many programs. The client will select with Jeffrey’s guidance the best program for their loved one.
Treatment arrangements for the loved one are critical and need to be in place prior to the intervention meeting. Factors that need to be considered here may include: any detoxification needs, psychiatric stabilization needs, travel arrangements to and from the selected treatment program, escort to and from the facility, verification of insurance benefits prior to admission, determining the costs of treatment, and coordinating a treatment plan and admission with the selected treatment center.
Unfortunately, undisclosed financial relationships between interventionists and treatment programs have become increasingly common in the field. Jeffrey is a member of the Network of Independent Interventionists, which means he prides himself on remaining free of financial influences or other considerations that can compromise professional recommendations and judgment. Because Jeffrey is not employed by and does not receive payment of any kind from any of the treatment centers he recommends, he is able to make unbiased and ethical treatment recommendations to guide you in your decision-making process.
4. Team Meeting / The Invitation
All participants of the intervention will meet with Jeffrey to prepare for the intervention meeting to follow with their loved one. Depending on the circumstances and the complexity of the case this meeting can take from a few to several hours. Usually the preparation meeting is the day before the intervention meeting with the loved one. Sometimes the preparation meeting takes place in the morning with the intervention meeting to follow if the intervention team prefers to move forward with both meetings on the same day.
The team is encouraged to bring to this meeting and share with the group their notes on the intervention sharing they plan to offer the loved one. Individual coaching and preparation materials have been provided in advance so that by the time of the meeting everyone understands what makes good intervention sharing and what does not. The team unites and strengthens as participants share the impact of the loved one’s mental health or addiction problems on their lives. Everyone is informed of the treatment decision and post-intervention plan. All team members understand and agree on what their role will be during the intervention. The team learns the importance of staying united and consistent in their messaging and their actions.
Jeffrey will prepare everyone for possible conflict and resistance. Contingencies and conflict resolution will be discussed so that the team understands how to navigate past obstacles and keep finding the best way forward. The team has agreed on the consequences that will follow if the loved one refuses despite all best efforts to accept the invitation to necessary treatment. This usually involves explaining to the loved one who refuses to change that they will be making certain changes to take better care of themselves and to stop supporting worsening mental health and/or addiction.
The team will also discuss and decide at the preparation meeting on the best invitation to give the loved one to come join the intervention meeting. In most cases, a more productive and less argumentative meeting results from an invitation from a couple team members to join the team with a clear explanation of what needs to be discussed. Surprise interventions that begin with deceiving the loved one tend to be counter-productive, combative and make it hard to re-establish trust and confidence in the team or the interventionist.
It is often a well-taken concern that the loved one may refuse to meet or run off when presented with the invitation to meet. If this is a likely possibility it is nonetheless usually possible to invite the person to come join the team for a meeting. The team may be ready outside the loved one’s home, for instance, ready to come in and meet if there is a refusal to meet or a likelihood the loved one may leave. Thorough preparation and discussion at the group level will lead to a decision on the best way to move forward.
5. The Intervention Meeting
The actual intervention meeting, usually referred to as the family meeting, will usually take place in the morning or early afternoon, lasting anywhere from a couple to several hours. Facilitated and guided by Jeffrey, a safe environment is created for the members of the team to express to the loved one their love and concern in a non-judgmental and factually supported manner. This format allows the interventionist to deliver a highly focused and unified message that addresses the loved one’s worsening illness and self-destructive path.
The team shares their heart, hurt and hope with the loved one. Contingencies and obstacles will be addressed with logical and healthy solutions. This is followed by another invitation — to accept the treatment that has been offered and that has been arranged for the loved one. This process is a highly successful and motivational method that serves as the first critical step on the road to recovery.
6. Ongoing Support
Following a successful intervention meeting, Jeffrey continues to work with the family, team members and the treatment program to provide the loved one with maximal support. Everyone is encouraged to work on their better health and wellness while their loved one is in treatment so that family healing and recovery can replace old patterns and behaviors. The loved one and the treatment program often benefit from Jeffrey’s ongoing support and advocacy for the highest quality care. Phone or video support continues with the client with regular updates and ongoing team support while the loved one is in treatment. Any conflicts in treatment are resolved so that the loved one is supported and can continue to stay engaged in the process. Treatment programs can always do better when they are aware of any problems and given the chance for improvement. Clients with this kind of collateral support and encouragement are also more likely to remain in treatment.
Aftercare is critical to maintaining longterm mental health and substance recovery. Jeffrey helps the client and their loved one work with the treatment program to develop a solid plan of action for next steps. Whether returning home or moving to the next level of care, the loved one will find that there is guidance and support from Jeffrey and a team that has stayed focused and prepared to address any challenges that may arise.
To discuss your unique situation and the intervention process in more detail, reach out for a confidential consultation. Contact